March 25, 2013 10:45 AM | By Bertan Budak
10 signs she is cheating on you

How can you tell if the woman in your life is being faithful?

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  • She becomes moody (© Getty Images)
  • She puts more effort into her looks (© Getty Images)
  • She sleeps with you less often (© Getty Images)
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She has a mysterious new friend
Peter Spalton, also known as 'The Dating Doctor', says that women who cheat will often create superficial friends to throw suspicious partners off course. He says: "You may find that she goes out with these friends regularly, maybe the same evening each week. She might even come up with a reason, maybe work or a hen party, so she can stay overnight."

Mar 26, 2013 11:56PM
How many of these types of articles have been written since a bunch of 40 somethings started writing for MSN? Too many.
Mar 27, 2013 11:33AM
Going through this right now with my wife of 8 years and it sucks. I love her more than anything but I guess that's not enough anymore.
Mar 27, 2013 4:52PM
I wish my wife would have an affair, at least then she would get the hell out of the house and I can enjoy some peace and quiet.....
Mar 27, 2013 3:16PM
Wow - some of these signs can mean something other than cheating...if my SO ever jumped the gun and accused me, I would be very upset and I would be out the door.  Communication is what is needed - not investigation and sifting thru people's personal items.  Everyone's situation is different and if people assume, after reading these "signs", without proper communication, then they might be in for a rude awakening.  Talk to your loved one, raise your concerns without judgement.  There may be a bigger problem in your relationship other than infidelity.
Mar 27, 2013 8:41AM
If she's got no regard for your feelings, play the game: find someone else, stay out late, and buy new underwear, too, but never show co-dependency weakness!
Mar 27, 2013 10:49AM
pretty sure i am getting cheated on esp when nothing happens in 3 months
Mar 27, 2013 2:32PM
Mar 27, 2013 5:13PM

I didn't notice where it said women predominately cheat, and if there is only a sign or two...or even three...there may be another explanation. But if there are several prepare for the worst. This list is bang on, been living every single one of these signs for the last few years and accidently proved my suspicions last fall. Why would a guy stay in denial so long? Kids, finances, because he really loves her...?

Mar 27, 2013 7:35AM
Mar 27, 2013 6:53PM
**** always cheat..don't kid yourself. Another good one is when she suddenly has a male "friend" and you are not supposed to worry because he's just her "friend" or better yet she says don't worry he's gay. Us guys get **** on all the time and painted as villains when it is the women 99% of the time who cheat. Just go on a chat room or dating site and hit on a married woman. You will see quickly how ready they are to cheat if you encourage them. Bros before Ho's any day!
Mar 27, 2013 8:58PM
Say what ?  It's pretty funny when the man is accused of this but, don't let the shoe be on the other foot.  I think cheating is a two way street.  And besides, who are these so called married women cheating with ? Perhaps married men !   Most of us, at one time or another would cheat on our spouse if we thought we'd actually get away with it.  Myself, I'd probably have guilt written all over my face.  It's  a good thing my wife and I have a very sexual relationship (  24 amazing years ).  I am very happy and so far have never even thought of it ( cheating )  and I trust my wife totally.
Apr 3, 2013 4:29PM
mine was with the phone..  very true...   it was with her work "guy" friend and old high school boyfriend..

i hate cell phones and txting.

Mar 27, 2013 8:08PM
what I've found out in my years of experience is this " If i man or woman cheats/has an affiar on their other halfi is because of problems inthe household (& it can range from many different things too NOT just of a sexual nature) PEOPLE we're still part beast we like to play around, if you have an affair & are caugfht in the act then you went about it the wrong way...1st off the" I've gotta work late at the office is old & stale, 2nd I'm going out with my buddies/ the girls" , is also old & stale too.ONLY an IDIOT would fall for these reasons the other gives you WAKE UP SMELL THE COFFEE DUMMY ! ! ! !  ...If your gonna cheat with your Lover do it during the day set  up a predestined meeting place (hotel or highway motel)far away from your own backyard go to work in the morning tell boss (if you're NOT the Boss you've got an appointment at 1 pm (Dr's/Dentist usually is a good one) then go to meeting place & enjoy each othersHOT  fluids & juices  from 12 noon to  6 pm...the wife or hubby won't call your office they'll call your cell phone if theres an emergency (after all thats why we have them) ...SEE SO EASY& he or she won't suspect a thing  cause its during the day....EVERYONE expects the " I gotta work late in the office" or "I've got a business dinner with a client in town"  or "I'm goin out with the girls /the boys tonight don't wait up for me "..... theses area ALL SO STALE ! ! ! & over used ....if you're gonna do it do it during the day ! ! ! ....i've been doing it for 15 yrs & never had a problem & I give her the same HARDCORE PORN Style SEX  i've been givinig my lovers too...even though she gives me those lame excuses too  
Mar 27, 2013 10:51AM
and i am a women asking a man size 6 losing weight wear lingerie i get nothing it suxs for women too 
Mar 27, 2013 3:27PM
I think its interesting that this study is solely focused on the idea that women predominately cheat 
Apr 3, 2013 12:20PM
This is b/s!! A lot of these subjects can have other things going on..."pushing away instead of receiving a kiss" or something...I do it because I'm ****ed off or he's annoying at the moment! Based on this article, guess I'll be single sometime soon! lol
Mar 27, 2013 12:18PM
this article is horribly misogynist and relies on superficial facts about women....

Mar 27, 2013 10:13AM
It should be called variety than anything else nobody is chained to nobody,
feelings people have have feelings for a lot of people ..... what is the big deal v r all going to die one day some STDs  some fights... some emotional somersaults enjoy the ride  .... 
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