The vast majority of straight men don't really care about fashion. We like to look good, but shopping is so much easier for men, and as a result we spend less time worrying about what we're wearing.
If you want us to dress better, fine, feel free to buy us new clothes, just don't expect a huge amount of effort on our part.
- Lifestyle TV: How to get on the same page as your partner
- Flirting moves that work (and the ones that never will)
- 10 signs she's cheating on you
Have you ever considered getting mature people to answer your questions?
The answers and questions you post sound like they are coming from very immature 16 year olds.
How old are the people who run these posts? Twelve?
From the female perspective, I do believe most of these are true. I don't believe that these comments make men terrible. That being said, some women do check out other men throughout the day, and yes, I do believe men check out other women, it's human nature, but be aware that for every woman a man checks out, somebody, perhaps in the plural form, has checked out your girlfriend or wife.
Looking at another persons nice features isnt a awful thing.
This is a little note to all Women.
WOMEN FORCE THEIR MEN TO LIE. THEY DO NOT LEAVE THEM ANY OTHER ALTERNATIVE (except anger over a totally loaded question and subsequent divorce)
Women are constantly asking questions that a man can not possibly answer without the woman feeling insulted. If he answers one way she's upset about something, and if he answers the other way she's upset about something on that side.
THEY DO THIS CONSTANTLY WITHOUT REALIZING THE POSITION SHE IS PUTTING THE MAN IN.That is WITH NO WAY OUT.
WOMEN ALSO EXPECT A MAN TO LIE TO CERTAIN QUESTIONS. They do not want the man to answer truthfully because they know the truth would hurt. THEY SEE THE LIE AS CARING. He lies so he doesn't hurt the woman's feelings, and that is exactly why the woman asked the question in the first place. To see if the man love's her enough to lie to her to protect her feelings.
This is why I will never get married. I am incapable of lying even the littlest of lies. When I do it eats at me and eats at me (lying to my girl) until I have to set the record straight and confess to the lie and it usually hurts her. And knowing I've hurt her, hurts me.
So please ladies try not to force your man to lie to you. It can be very hard on him even when it's just a little white lie.
Why aren't there any positives included in this list? Surely men cannot be THAT dense and insensitive.
I value his opinion and if I want to know the truth about things I go to him.
You could almost invert and overlap the sex & correspondance points as they tend to be equally relevant for the opposing gender. If women could possibly understand that men care as much about physical intimacy as they do about receiving correspondance we might get somewhere. Though, sadly from a mans point of view, women only tend to be interested in passionate sex PRIOR to the formation of a stable relationship. And men will only care about correspondance when there is a benefit and not just a cost associated with it. Thus men will correspond at the start of a relationship and not when it becomes secure & stable.
Men and women are similar in one area (progency). Men are focused on practicing the creation, women on bettering the outcome of the product.
So, normal men focus on things that will increase their chances: Fitness (Sports), Wealth, Status, Power & increased freqency with an increased number of women.
Normal women focus on ac****ulating as many resources and as much time input from the father, friends, family and society.
Look at it that way and you can easily understand why, guys have roving eyes, why women dress up when going out and why a powerful man or a young slim woman are going to have many many many more sexual options than poor, weak, unpopular men or obese, cold, older women.
I love that the last one says "not in a billion years would we ever, ever draw attention to cellulite on your thighs or even the slightest hint of a muffin top"
Then goes on to say "I've made this mistake in the past..."
I thought you'd never in a billion years...?
What happened to "Love changes people"? What I think is this guy is really in love with himself, and he sees women as these evil, nagging, scheming monsters plotting to castrate all men. I think he also sees men as these stupid, sexually depraved beasts of burden that drag thier perpetually erect elephant leg on the ground, looking for women that they're not in a relationship with to have sex with.