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Updated: December 19, 2012 12:45 PM | By Josey Miller
How to make a long distance relationship work

Dating is hard. Doing it across state lines is harder! Follow these rules to keep it together even when you're apart



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Agree on Your Commitment Level
Couples in long-distance relationships know they’re taking a risk, not to mention making a few sacrifices. But if you see a real future for the two of you, the sacrifices won’t seem to matter. Still, before you get involved in a long-distance relationship, there are a few things you have to establish. Are you exclusive or are you seeing other people? Don’t assume that it’s one or the other if you’ve never discussed it, especially if you’re looking to keep things one-on-one. “With long-distance relationships, you need to have a detailed, intimate conversation, including whether the connection is monogamous or open,” says Tonya Reiman, author of The Body Language of Dating: Read His Signals, Send Your Own, and Get the Guy. “Confirming the level of commitment will help to avoid unnecessary jealousy issues and fights.” If you think this is the one, get ready for some hard, but hopefully rewarding, work. “The amount of time couples are able to maintain a long-distance relationship really depends upon how they nurture it,” says Reiman.

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Jan 7, 2013 10:51AM
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This is terrible advice. All of it.

Jan 4, 2013 9:35AM
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Really!!

Dude are you nuts..In my country we have a say that prays: Long distance love, happiness for the four.

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