Some nights you're bound to be SOL, but use our mood-shifting tips and you could get lucky
Her Mood: Silly
When a woman is feeling goofy, she wants you to be playful with her as well. If that sounds like an invitation to get hands-on, that's because it is. Start by tickling her or by giving her a flirty spank. Your goal: Get physical while keeping her laughing, because humour is an awesome aphrodisiac. Once you have her giggling, take the flirting up a notch by grabbing her by the butt and pulling her toward your hips. The motion simulates sex, which will kick those naughty thoughts into gear.
Warning: Do Not…
Act overly sarcastic. Women like dry humour, but a little goes a long way.
Sources: psychologist Michael J. Bader, PhD, author of Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies; sexologist Gloria Brame, PhD, author of The Truth About Sex; relationship expert Pepper Schwartz, PhD, author of Everything You Know About Love and Sex Is Wrong
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